No child is born socially competent and no child acquires social skills overnight. Social skills are ways of dealing with oneself and interacting with others. It is considered vital for children to be nurtured with social skills at an early age. As children grow, they are exposed to the outer world where they come across people from different age sections. And social skills pave way to establishing, strengthening and maintaining positive relationships.
Children who are adequately imbibed with social values are capable of dealing with emotions and hard times, are considerate and respectful to the interests of their peer group and also tend to exhibit a healthy conduct towards them. On the other hand, children who lack social skills experience inner conflicts and often resort to inappropriate activities, which eventually lead to emotional degradation and undesirable behaviour. Therefore, both parents and teachers play a crucial role in helping the socially troubled children overcome their problems as well as providing assistance to the socially sound children in enriching their social experience and interpersonal skills.
Here are some reasons why social skills are the stepping stones to one’s overall development:
The fostering of children in a socially acceptable environment aids in the improvement of their overall personality. It is considered that a socially stable surrounding provides ample opportunities for children to reinforce their existing social skills and thereby achieve mastery over them. Social values prove to be benefitting in ways like:
Enhanced academic performance: It promotes one’s scholastic conduct as well as boosts confidence and augments self-growth.
Expression of emotions: Learning social skills helps a child to channelize one’s emotions instead of letting them take a toll over one’s mental and emotional health.
Take responsibilities of their behaviours and actions: A socially adept child learns how to take control of one’s own thoughts and actions and manage disagreement or unfavourable situations accordingly.
Appropriate social skills not only build up a child’s personal outlook; they also are indispensable components that contribute towards the establishment of healthy relationships.
Initiation of interaction: Proper interpersonal skills help children find ways to interact with people around, depending on the age group they belong to. In other words, a child learns to pay attention to opinions put forth by others and delivers appropriate responses to the same, without causing disrespect.
Participation in activities: Healthy social skills encourage a child to join several clubs of varied interests and engage in various tasks, both individually and in teams, which promotes development in one’s well-being.
Social engagement: When a child steps out to the outer world, one meets several people, be it in family occasions or public places. Basic social skills are essential to help children realize how one should portray oneself in accordance with the people and the places of meeting them.